Hi Knotties,
I've never posted here before because wedding planning has been going well - fantastic in fact. Then...learned last week that a family acquaintance just got engaged and will also be getting married on my same date in late June. I've already sent out my STD and about 50 people have indicated they will now be unable to attend because they will be going to the other wedding (in a different town, because they have known her longer). Ouch.
Do I still invite them to the bridal shower and wedding? These are close family friends (not the bride, but the people who have now declined) but I'm hurt that they decided to jump ship. We have a tight budget, so saving money on invites would be wonderful, but I don't want to give them the cold shoulder either.
Also, to complicate the situation - one of the friends threw out the idea of having a joint BBQ the following day so the people that are unable to attend my wedding can still celebrate. Am I wrong to say no? Everyone will have just attended her wedding and the last thing I want to hear is how wonderful it was, instead of being asked about my special day, not to mention the fact that I have a bitter taste in my mouth of basically being "second best". I can't think of a worse way to start our Honeymoon, but this is one of the only times that I can celebrate with these people, as my fiancé and I now live in a different state.
Any advice?