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I am so excited :)

FI ex atually agreed to let his two kids come to our wedding!  This woman is pretty psycho and has notoriously used the kids against him and often treats them as pawns.  I am sure we will have hell to pay down the road but I am so excited that they will get to come, it means so much to him.

He was worried that I would be upset about ordering another tux and paying the rush fee since we know she wont take him to get measured and about buying another dress.  I told him I am so happy hey will be here, I could care less about the cost.
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Re: I am so excited :)

  • SueR13SueR13 member
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    edited December 2011
    Nice.
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  • edited December 2011
    That's great news. :)
  • AbbeyS2011AbbeyS2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    I am really happy for you!  That is sad that his ex cannot be more flexible when it comes to the kids.  My MOH had a similar issue:  her hubby's ex refused to let his daughter be in the wedding unless she knew when/where, all the details.  Then she waited til the last minute to say she could be the flower girl, so my MOH had to have two because she did not want to be without one! 
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  • Sloane99Sloane99 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yay! Little does she know that she gave you the best wedding gift you guys could have

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  • edited December 2011
    That's great news.  I agree with Sloane, she gave you the best present ever!  You can tell her that AFTER the wedding!
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  • melissamc2melissamc2 member
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    edited December 2011
    That's fantastic!  Congratulations to you all!
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  • edited December 2011
    OMG, I supposed that FI ex was the only phsyco one!!! Yes, she did everything that she could to put the kids against him; she turned his life a living hell and we had to learn how don't to allow her to interfere with our lives. But kids grown up and in the end they make their own choices...and his kids chose to spend time with us...and yes, this is the best gift ever!!!
    So I share your joy and congratulate you for this great new!!!!  
  • edited December 2011
    Thank you! I don't know which I am more excited for the wedding or the kids.  I miss my little man terribly and I have never met the daughter.  I ordered her dress yesterday.  I can't wait to see them!!!!  It will be the best day ever. 
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  • kimp67kimp67 member
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    edited December 2011
    That's great!  I don't want to rain on your parade, but considering what you've said, I wouldn't consider it a done deal until the day of.  Good Luck!!
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  • cwcottagecwcottage member
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    edited December 2011
    How can an ex NOT let a child be in the wedding legally? If there is joint custody or even visitation?

    I'm really glad to hear she has agreed but I just don't understand why she would even need to agree!
  • edited December 2011
    That's great news!  I'm sure your FI is more pretty happy about that.  Congratulations, as Sloane said, best gift ever and she didn't even know it!
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