HI!
I have only been engaged for a few months now, and up until a couple of weeks ago I was thinking 2013 and that I had plenty of time so was not seriously considering much. I really really want a fall wedding, so a couple of weeks ago my fiance said he thinks Fall 2013 is too far! I agree it is a loong way away but now I am sort of freaking out that we don't have a venue or date. Is this normal pre-wedding stress or should I put it off? I'm normally very organized and like to be prepared on the early side, and I'm not concerned with pulling the rest of the details together but its driving me nuts that I havent found the place yet. But its's all I can think about and I'm afraid he is right because all I will be able to think about for the next two years will be wedding wedding wedding. We talked last night and he said if its too much stress we can push it back, he wants me to enjoy it but now I am torn.
(I don't hate the idea of a April wedding but the weather is so unpredictable and I don't want dead of the winter either and summer is too hot & I was trying to go for off peak to save a little)