I can't reply to my post below. I know I seem obnoxious in creating this one. The original posts I was responing to were deleted. A wedding planner named Nikki Barrow was on this board promoting herself with advice and links to her website. She even had a siginature file with her contact information. After she delted it looked like I was responding to a normal post.
Vendors are not allowed on this board. There are clear rules regarding that. Look at the very top post called rules. When I was planning I found this board invaluable with honest advice from other brides. Having vendors post on this board is offensive.
There are no rules about past brides who were addicted to the site and who continue reading it while making the hours pass at a boring night time job.