If you saw my open letter earlier, I shared how my mother has gone into MOB overdrive, and there isn't even a date set.
Well I got an email from a company I had never heard off offering wedding cruises. and I got nervous. They had an approx. date that I am dreaming of. I didn't think I had given this information out yet, so I figured it was some snooping or something....
but no! Turns out my mother had given out my contact information. and I was LIVID! I actually started a very angry post, when my dad calls me, and I ask "are you upset over the same thing I am?" and of course, he knew what I was talking about. Turns out, my mom called him and asked if he could plan my wedding with her (yes, the two of them, my lovely divorced parents who don't get along -but hello, why wasn't I invited--anyway) and when he said he didn't want to she got upset with him and then asked if he is going to "contribute financially" to wedding, and he said he wouldn't discuss it and she became histerical. Well he called me right after, and we laughed about it.
I came back to my computer, erased my angry post. and started this.
I am still very annoyed that my mom gave out my contact information to a company I have never heard of. But at least I have had a chance to vent to my (very, very understanding) father, and won't snap at her later.
But seriously, I don't want to get married in San Diego. I grew up there, my family is there, but other than those people I feel no connection to the city. I left there to be with my bf (now FI) after being apart for well over a year. This is where I started a life with him. This is where I want to get married. I just don't know how to make her understand that. *sigh*
Girls is stripper heels, boys rolling in Maseratis,
all they need in this world is some love.
