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BMs not agreeing on lingerie shower/bachelorette

Re: BMs not agreeing on lingerie shower/bachelorette

  • HobokensFuryHobokensFury member
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    You're the bride so stay out of it. Let them figure it out on their own. They should not be bothering you with any of this. If the call to complain say sorry but I'm not getting involved please don't call about this anymore.
     
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  • libby2483libby2483 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_pre-wedding-parties_bms-not-agreeing-on-lingerie-showerbachelorette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:32Discussion:2c26d314-8858-40dc-96ad-5fb9feb2909cPost:f6eafce9-9261-48d7-ab21-6c91b327ee85">BMs not agreeing on lingerie shower/bachelorette</a>:
    [QUOTE]BM A wants to throw a lingerie shower with BM B - they are friends. <strong> I've asked BM C to plan the bachelorette party. </strong> BM C thinks lingerie and bachelorette go hand in hand, suggested to BM A that they combine efforts and since it'd be the same girls invited for both events...  BM C is a coworker and not friends w/ BM A or B. So now BM A is emailing me,   "BM C says you want to combine parties, so I guess that we will just give her money and let her plan it since that is what you want"  I  don't care if it is separate or together... I just want it to be fun and everyone get along... there may be another shower given by my sister - if there is too many parties, people may end up just choosing one event to attend so combining things might make sense, but then BM A doesn't get the chance to host something which I know she wants to  do.  My wedding is at the end of December... so I think the party cutoff date is mid-November, given Thanksgiving and then holidays and just too much going on in December. I'm just frustrated that I'm in the middle of it, and they're both coming to me to discuss it and ask my opinion. What to do? 
    Posted by amsdallasbride[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>This is part of the problem.  You should never ask anyone to throw a party (bahcelorette party, shower, or otherwise) in your honor.  People volunteer to do this, and if they don't, you don't have said party.  At this point, you need to stay out of it.  Say to the BMs, "I am really appreciative that you guys are willing to do this for me.  I'm sure however you work it out will be lovely."</div><div>

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