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October 2013 Weddings

New!! Oct. 11, 2013

Hello!!  I'm 32 and my FI is 31 soon to be 32.  We have been together for 9 yrs.  We did everything backwards.  Moved in, been engaged for 7 yrs and have 3 boys age 11, 7 & 6.  I'm a SAHM and babysit and FI is a manager for a sub contracter for Time Warner.  Prior to staying home I worked at a doctors office.  Our wedding will be small with family & a few close friends.  I never dreamed of my wedding day like some do.  We will be havng our cermony/reception which is more of a dinner with some eliments of a reception at the same venue.  Guest list is 50-60 and I'm a budget bride.  We both love the fall and I love fall colors but have not decided 100% if I want to use fall colors.  Feel free to ask any questions, give idea, advice, etc........I'm a little lost with the whole wedding planning.  My mom lives in Las Vegas and I'm very busy with my children.  Look forward to chating with other brides.  

Re: New!! Oct. 11, 2013

  • Welcome! Wow 7 years engaged, crazy! I could not imagine.

    Basics:
    Cheese?
    How do you like your potatos?
    Wine? If so, what kind?
    Reading any books at the moment?

     

  • I will post all my basics on the Getting to know you board.  It's been a long 7 years.  We have been through a lot as a couple and have managed to pull through it all.  Thanks!!
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2013-weddings_new-oct-11-2013?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:1925524f-fa8b-432f-a7b5-be486ce756efDiscussion:67b5205c-6f5d-4149-a527-9d7f36eec975Post:9f275d23-3b58-4d40-b3cc-dcd2da37db97">Re: New!! Oct. 11, 2013</a>:
    [QUOTE]<strong>I will post all my basics on the Getting to know you board.</strong>  It's been a long 7 years.  We have been through a lot as a couple and have managed to pull through it all.  Thanks!!
    Posted by amdenune1[/QUOTE]

    Copy and paste over here? This is easier to read then to go to that one. Plusalso, we get to ask you questions!

     

  • Screen Name: amdenune1
    Age: 32
    Significant Other's Age: 31
    What You Do: SAHM & Child Care
    What SO Does: Manager
    State of Relationship: Engaged
    How Long You've Been Together: 9 yrs Jan. 17th
    How You Met: 4TH Grade
    Wedding Date (if you're engaged/married): Oct. 11, 2013
    Real Babies: 3
    Fur Babies: 0
    Loves: Starbucks, Serving at Church,  Worship, Date Night and Being a Mom
    Hates: Rude People
    Pet Peeves: There is to many
    Hobbies/Activities: Hiking, Girls Night, Soccer, Basketball, Exercise & Family Time
    Favorite Thing About Your SO:  Amazing dad & Provider
    Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: Works to much
    Describe Your Personality: OCD w/Cleaning, Control Freak, Caring & Strong
    Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): 8-10
    I've Been On TK Since: 9.18.12
    How You Came to Be On TK: Looking up Venues on the internet
    How I like my potatoes: Mashed, Grilled & Baked
    Favorite book/author: Not a big reader
    Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: Yes my FI and I have been engaged for 7 yrs.  Why so long?  Shortly after getting engaged my mom was DX with Stage 3 Breast Cancer and the next 1-2 yrs were tough for the family.  I had some medical issues after having my last son and ended up having 8 major pelvic surgeries in a matter of 2-3 yrs.  My last surgery was Jan. 2012.  I lost my sister to suicide 6 months ago, both of our parents went through a divorce at the beginning of our relationship and my FI lost his Uncle to suicide when I was 6 mths pregnant with our first son.  Dealing with all these ups and downs caused us to put the wedding planning on hold in till we felt the time was right.  Shortly after my sister passed we decided it was time to take the next step in our relationship. 
  • Oh my, I am so sorry to hear about all the things you went through.

     

  • So how far along in the process are you? Was there any significance to your date?

     

  • We have booked are venue and officiant..  Working on setting up appts for cake, flowers, dj and photos.  Thankfully I know a few people that have thier own business. 1 who makes awesome wedding cakes, 2 who are photogaphers and 3 people that DJ.  I have already spoke to them but have not decided if I will use them or not.  I do not want a lot of flowers. 
    No significance to our date.  We knew we wanted Oct. because we both love the fall.  We thought the date 10.11.13 was neat and also easy to remember, lols......You seem to have a lot done.  I started getting stress after reading  the different post from other brides because you all have a lot done.  I have started picking up some DIY for decor. 
  • Welcome Welcome. We look forward to getting to know you and learning about your big day :D
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2013-weddings_new-oct-11-2013?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:1925524f-fa8b-432f-a7b5-be486ce756efDiscussion:67b5205c-6f5d-4149-a527-9d7f36eec975Post:fb6414bd-42df-4919-adfe-07a9de1cd597">Re: New!! Oct. 11, 2013</a>:
    [QUOTE]We have booked are venue and officiant..  Working on setting up appts for cake, flowers, dj and photos.  Thankfully I know a few people that have thier own business. 1 who makes awesome wedding cakes, 2 who are photogaphers and 3 people that DJ.  I have already spoke to them but have not decided if I will use them or not.  I do not want a lot of flowers.  No significance to our date.  We knew we wanted Oct. because we both love the fall.  We thought the date 10.11.13 was neat and also easy to remember, lols......<strong>You seem to have a lot done.  I started getting stress after reading  the different post from other brides because you all have a lot done.  I have started picking up some DIY for decor.</strong> 
    Posted by amdenune1[/QUOTE]

    Don't get stressed! You have a good portion of time yet. I also have a long engagement. Not quite as long as yours, but 26 months. I don't have any kids either so that helps get things done.

     

  • I keep telling myself to calm down, it will all work out.  It tends to help.  Having kids takes up mostt of your time.  Between school, homework, sports and running my oldest to different Fuse groups he is in I feel like 24 hours is not enough for one day:)  Looking forward to getting to you all of you too.

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2013-weddings_new-oct-11-2013?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:1925524f-fa8b-432f-a7b5-be486ce756efDiscussion:67b5205c-6f5d-4149-a527-9d7f36eec975Post:0504d071-60dd-42ec-92b1-5bfe7d68c597">Re: New!! Oct. 11, 2013</a>:
    [QUOTE]Welcome Welcome. We look forward to getting to know you and learning about your big day :D
    Posted by dewingedpixie[/QUOTE]
    Thanks!! 
  • Welcome! Sorry to hear about the bad things that have happened recently.
    Congrats and best wishes on your engagement and with starting the planning process!

    I'm one of the ones who has a lot done, but don't be stressed! It is still a long way away and everything will get done in time.
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