So I posted my question on another board (Attire) and they gave some suggestions I will take into consideration.
However, I was wondering what my AAW ladies think about cobalt blue vest and ties appearing prom-like. FI has selected for his men to wear cobalt blue vests and ties with him wearing silver. They are wearing black suits, white tops, black shoes. I really don't want them to wear vests, but its what FI wants. I would like them just to wear blue ties, esp since our wedding is July 5th.
Thoughts?