Well I knew at some point I would hit a snag!
I spoke with my gma in Iowa and she has offered to help my bridesmaids throw my shower next month (probably pay for a lot of it). She also has contributed to our wedding. She sprung this on me though. I told her that I had sent one of the BM's the addresses for the invites and she said she already told MOH to add her sister, D. I am not inviting D to the wedding. It is half way across the country and I haven't seen D in probably 10 years, plus we are having a relatively small wedding with around 140 invited and my family already outnumbers his by a bit. He isn't inviting his cousins because he isn't close with them, whereas I am inviting all 6 of mine. I don't really know what to do. Yes, I probably should add them because now gma is breaking ettiquette and inviting non-invited guests to a wedding event, but gma also has contributed $....I just don't want to get on a slippery slope of having a bunch of invite requests this late in the game, especially ones that I'm not that close with. Chances are D and her husband wouldn't be able to travel for it, but still. What do you girls think? I'm almost tempted to turn a blind eye to it, but I know that would be wrong. Have you encountered this yet?
