I just got engaged march 3rd, to the man of my dreams. We set the wedding date for may 26th of 2012. I want a huge wedding, but i'm also realistic. We don't have a big budget. I want to have the wedding and reception in the same venue to save on costs. My fh suggested that we let our family do the cooking.( I really don't want too) I'm trying to meet him in the middle, by trying to cut costs elsewhere. Any advice...........