My little sister (MOH) is throwing me a bridal shower in March, and my FI got a little upset that she didn't invite all of the females from his family to the shower. I gave my sister addresses for his mom, stepmom, grandmas, and aunt (who I've all met), and he doesn't have any sisters, but was she supposed to invite everyone is his family? I could understand if we lived closer, but our families are 6+ hours apart...
But now I'm worried that I offended my FI family by not inviting them... I couldn't imagine saying "Here's 20 more people you have to invite/pay for" to my sister, since that is completely unfair to her, but my mom and I don't want to offend his family either.