What's the deal with unity candle/sand ceremonies?
I'm trying to decide whether or not to include one in our ceremony. I don't have a strong feeling either way but I think that's because I don't know much about it other than seeing it done. Are they originally a Catholic tradition and if not how does the church view them? Is it "bad" not to have one? If you plan on having one (or had one) do you really plan on keeping it on a shelf forever?
Thanks!