So my fiance and I are both very family oriented. My family has always had some set traditions especially during Christmas. My family holds a Christmas Eve party with all my family from cousins to grandparents. Theres a dinner which everyone brings a dish and my mom makes a honeybaked ham and theres a gift exchange. On Christmas morning my parents have a huge exchange with my brother and sister and our kids they make breakfast and everyone takes turns opening one gift at a time then later in the day to celebrate my birthday(which is on Christmas day) my mom cooks a nice dinner for the family and they have a cake for me. My fiance wants to go over to his family's place as well. I don't see how we cn do the stuff with my family, take my son to his father's and go to his family's all on christmas day. I said we could go to his family's on christmas eve before the party but he wants to go on Christmas day and he got very angry. I told him everything we had to do on christmas day and he just walked out. Thanksgiving is hard enough going to both places at once, seriously only spent 2 hours at my parents which was enough time to eat and leave....didn't even have time for pie. Trying to shove everyone in on christmas day is going to be exahsting. I guess I thought our day would go with us having christmas morning at our place just the three of us then go to my parents and open presants there and have dinner then take my son to his father's. Any suggestions would help. I also don't mean to sound selfish it's just dinner is the only thing that even remotly feels like it's my birthday...everyone forgets and I alwas get the this presant is BOTH Christmas and birthday...it really sucks