Is anyone else having this problem?
Originally FI and I seriously wanted an intimate parents and siblings only attendance at our wedding, but we were "talked" into having a somewhat larger wedding. We were expecting about 45-50 guests (I know this still seems small to many of you). So we've been planning accordingly. Tables, STDs, Invites, Cake, etc. . .
Well, remember I said my brother and his wife couldn't make our wedding because they're expecting. I also cut a few people from the job I left because that whole thing didn't end well. So now as of Christmas, I found out that we are now down an additional 5 and maybe 7 people. So we're looking at maybe 33 - 35 guests max.
While this is great for my per person cost, some of the expense I've already spent. Now I only need 4 tables instead of 6, so thats extra linens and centerpieces I have now. I was able to reduce the size of our cake and that will save me money, but now we're reducing the size of our venue ballroom so we don't look dwarfed in such a small space.
Overall I just feel like we keep making changes and I just want to have a final plan in place. I appreciate everyone at least giving us notice so I can attempt to reduce things early, but now I'm questioning why we even have certain things, like a DJ, etc.
Is anyone else having this problem?
May 2013 Brides Siggy Challenge January- Let Them Eat Cake!
My cake is a 2-tier ivory cake with silver dotted scallops, ribbon and pearl brooch.