So my mom went to my brother's fiance's Bridal Shower...and pulled her mother (bride's mother) aside and proceeded to tell her about how my brother (her son) isnt good enough to marry her daughter, and how he should take better care of her and that he really needs to get a better job and just proceeded to rip him a new one via his future mother in law. Then when my brother called my mom to ask her about it she denied ever talking to her. Now everytime my brother tries to talk to her she gets mad at him and hangs up on him....should i step in and try to confront her on his behalf? I just feel like she keeps beating him down and it's got to stop or she won't have a son anymore...he will totally cut her off if she doesn't stop doing what she's doing?
What would you do?
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I would stay out of it.
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I think it would be best to just lend a sympathetic ear but otherwise stay out of it. Anything you do will likely make it worse, and you might be seen as "siding with him" when your mom already seems a bit irrational to begin with. I would just advise your brother to leave it alone and not call her for a while.
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