Ok, some of you may be following the drama that includes my FMIL and her choice words of me and my family. The last I heard from her was a phone call of her screaming to me about the money I asked her to contribute to the 15 extra people she invited without asking.
So fast forward to Sunday. My fiance and I were told by his brother (who is a jerk and is using my fiance's bedroom furniture while he lives with his wife and son at FMILs house) that if he wanted his bedroom furniture it needed to be out by Sunday "so he could help." I am so thankful I come from a family who has access to certain things, so I was able to use my stepdad's truck and enclosed trailer to get his things on such short notice. I was hoping that FMIL wouldn't be home when we got his belongings, but my luck she was there. As soon as I walked in the door with fiance, she told me and him to sit in her room so she could talk to us. So we sit down and she starts by saying how she loves me, and how she feels like we haven't been able to have a bond like her being my second mother. She said that my fiance told her that I felt like she did something against me, and she doesn't want me to take it that way. Mind you, last time we spoke she called me a spoiled brat from a rich undeserving family. I tried to play it on, hoping to just get it out of the way, and I said we haven't really spent much time together because I live in Homestead and she lives in Doral, and that I'm an emotional person who takes things personally. So we ended up ending things on "good terms" I guess you could say. Which the only reason we did was because I ended up apologizing for "taking things out of context" and for "not trying to have a relationship with her." No apology from her or anything, but whatever, I'll be the bigger person. So we moved fiance's stuff (with no help from his brother like he promised, anyway).
So yesterday I was spending time with my mom running errands, and FMIL sent me a text about the rehearsal dinner. I was busy at the moment and didn't have time to respond, so I did so today. The woman has done a complete 180. She is being super nice to me, and calling me her daughter and saying she loves me every 5 seconds. I am very afraid. I have no idea what to do or what to expect next. She went from hostile and abrasive to loving and caring. Should I just be grateful for the personality change, or should I be cautious of it? Lol
