First off I'm very attached to my last name, and I'm changing it begrudgingly, but its important to FI that our family shares one last name, and that it's his as he is the last of his line. I wanted to move my last name to my middle name, but there is an issue- I already have two middle names! My first middle name is usually linked with my first name, i.e. "Anne Marie" and my second middle name is a family name that has an unusual spelling which I share with my grandmother, aunt, and 4 cousins. To be honest, I don't really want to drop either, but Anne Marie Luissa Smith Anderson is a bit lengthy.
Any suggestions? Or stories from people who had a similar issue?