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Should I?

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One of my friends who I am inviting to our wedding informed me that her boyfriend of 2yrs. said FI and I were tacky for having it in Vegas. Then he proceeded to say what a stupid idea it was and it's rude of us since not everyone can come. WTF?! I have never had a problem with this guy so don't know why he is hating on us! So now I don't want him to come (obviously) but he's her plus one...should I invite him or not?
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  • jmcjdw13jmcjdw13
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    I think that to be on good terms with your friend, you should still invite him.  When it comes to weddings, people are always gonna have something to say about what they think is right and what they think is wrong.  My sister's wedding was this past Sunday and some family members are already looking for something to critique...maybe I'm just used to my family's pettiness!
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    You could just not invite him, but be prepared for drama and/or losing a friend. You can't invite one without the other, besides you'll be immersed in your new H and other people you might not notice he's there anyway.
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    If he is her BF and you're inviting her then you must invite him.

    It's shitty of him to say those things but, honestly, I think it's pretty shitty of your friend to tell you that he said those things as well. What was the purpose of her telling you this? Seems really immature & rude to me. 



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  • hisbabygirl76hisbabygirl76 member
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    I gree with RDR that it was really immature of your friend to even tell you he said this. He can have his own opinion but she doesnt need to share it with you.

    I say just keep the invite as is and who cares what he says, You and your new H will have a great day even if your friends bf thinks its tacky. Whatever to him.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_should-i?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:d5223b46-61b3-407f-ba00-2d4f966a7547Post:cee89f78-0387-4eed-856e-5b32cc8dc48c">Re: Should I?</a>:
    [QUOTE]If he is her BF and you're inviting her then you must invite him. It's shitty of him to say those things but, honestly, I think it's pretty shitty of your friend to tell you that he said those things as well. What was the purpose of her telling you this? Seems really immature & rude to me. 
    Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]



    You're right, not sure why she told me (maybe they had a fight and she was pissed?). Or maybe she feels that way too, she's the only one who has made comments about the date, flights being too expensive, etc blah blah blah. My thing is why come if it's something you're going to frown upon?
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_should-i?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:d5223b46-61b3-407f-ba00-2d4f966a7547Post:b6ab7391-8475-4019-a860-2eb698ad12ea">Re: Should I?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Should I? : You're right, not sure why she told me (maybe they had a fight and she was pissed?). Or maybe she feels that way too, she's the only one who has made comments about the date, flights being too expensive, etc blah blah blah. My thing is why come if it's something you're going to frown upon?
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    <div>Maybe they won't come then! I wouldn't want someone at my wedding that's done nothing but b!tch and complain about things.</div>



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  • RebCapponRebCappon
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2013-weddings_should-i?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:ea657a87-d1dc-4588-999f-31c9deeef720Discussion:d5223b46-61b3-407f-ba00-2d4f966a7547Post:cee89f78-0387-4eed-856e-5b32cc8dc48c">Re: Should I?</a>:
    [QUOTE]If he is her BF and you're inviting her then you must invite him. It's shitty of him to say those things but, honestly, I think it's pretty shitty of your friend to tell you that he said those things as well. What was the purpose of her telling you this? Seems really immature & rude to me. 
    Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

    I agree.
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