So here's the story. I've been engaged since last May we had a wedding planned for June of this year but realized we couldn't really afford it and had to cancel the wedding. Now out of no where, my fiance's brother proposed on Christmas Eve and everyone was essentially rubbing my face in the fact that they're getting married. I didn't even get into the door before I was asked if I wanted to be in their wedding. Everything about this drives me nuts, they both said that neither of them ever wanted to get married and if they did they would just elope. Everyone know's how upset I was that we had cancelled our wedding and I had actually talked to her about how hard it was a mere two days before she was engaged. All day at Christmas I had to hear about them being engaged and how happy they were after he proposed and she said yes he said "You're mine now bitch" and then they called everyone they knew, not tacky at all. Throughout the day they said multiple times that they'd wait at least three years. Then the next day she facebooks me telling me they're getting married in September 2011 (not 3 years at all). This led to my fiance and I getting into yet another heated discussion on how we're never going to get married, before coming to the conclussion that we can scrape together enough money for a nice wedding if we have several cutbacks. After thinking things through, I think we have a pretty decent plan, and we're getting married June 25, 2011. Do you think this sounds to vengeful? I hate to get married out of spite, but they're being pretty ridiculous. Thanks for listening to my rant if you read this