So my fiancee and I are not religious at all. We like the traditions and values of our religion but do not practice (i dont eat pork or shelfish and go to temple for the holidays) Our families are more observant and my Uncles and cousins are Lubavitch. We decided to ask my cousing to marry us but after discussing we are concerned that they are making to many requirements... The one that pushed us over the limit was not only does my fiancee have to go to a mikvah but he wants her to take mikvah lessons. Has your Rabbi (orthodox one) made any demands on you?