Hi everyone. I'm Stephanie.
I'm new around here, and have tons of questions. But first, I'll give you a little bit of background.
I was baptized when I was a bebe, but didn't "do" the religion thing when I was a child. I did do RCIA last year (I'm 28 now), so I am a full member of the church, or whatever you want to call it. I am glad that I did it, but I don't feel like I know much more about God, or being a Catholic than I did before I went through the process. In the interest of full disclosure, I don't attend Mass every week. I won't make excuses for it, because I know its wrong not to go.
My FI are getting married in May 2011. We booked the reception hall the other day, and surprisingly, booked the church too. It isn't the one that I did RCIA through last year, but one that is a little closer to the reception hall. I know it is tradition to be married in the brides home church, but I don't feel any particular ties to any one church, which is why we went with this other church in Goshen. I attend mass in Middletown (which is where I did RCIA) and in Liberty, which is about 40 minutes away and where my family lives. The priest seems very cool, but I still feel like a big faker asking him to marry me when I know I could do more to be a good Catholic. I know I can do a lot over the next seven months to improve that....like, say, go to Mass every weekend.
I don't have so many questions right this moment, but please feel free to give me pearls of advice, and look out for me in the future!