April 2012 Weddings

93 days out and I'm already losing sleep!

Oy vey.

I still have just over 3 months until the wedding and I'm already losing sleep over the small details. People tell me just to relax and not think about it for a day or two... How am I supposed to do that?

I'm extremely excited as well, don't get me wrong.

I just keep getting emails and phonecalls about wedding stuff. How am I supposed to forget about it when no one else will? On top of that I've had a lot of wedding drama lately and have felt very backed into a corner about a lot of things. It's our wedding, we should have what we want (within reason and budget of course).

The good news is that I was able to find a replacement officiant, and my invitations should be coming in the mail today! I can't wait to see them.

Re: 93 days out and I'm already losing sleep!

  • Who is constantly calling and emailing you? Vendors or friends/family? If its the former, well, you just sort of have to deal with that, and appreciate that they are committed to making your day all you want it to be! I am envious, as my vendors are hard to get a hold of some times! If its the latter, tell your friends and family that you're kind of stressed and could use a little bit of a break!  I'm sure they just want to make it awesome for you as well, and they are probably just trying to get things taken care of as the clock ticks. 

    What have you been backed into a corner about? I know what you mean about pushy family. Are you and your FI paying?

    As for the small details, you're going to make yourself sick if you constantly worry. I know it's hard, but I just try not to dwell on what I can't control. There are even some things, even as close as we are, that still just can't quite be handled or nailed down yet.
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  • Sorry for the delay!
    I needed a break!

    I've got people asking me things from all sides... Family, friends, and vendors. I do feel lucky that vendors are trying to hunt ME down, but i just need some breathing room!

    I felt backed into a corner about our officiant, and FHs suit. It's a long story. I was able to get a new officiant, but it cost an arm and a leg.

    This week I am going to take a steo back and all i'm going to do is send the invitations. They are already stuffed and addressed! They just have to be sent!
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