So I just wanted to vent about this a little. My RSVP date was Wednesday. Of course there were like 15 or so ppl who hadn't returned their rsvp...and that was after I had me, my mother, and FFIL send out reminders a little less than a week before the due date reminding people. So we round up the most replys but as of yesterday I still had about 8 people I didn't have responses to. So I put my mom on the duty of calling them (the family ones) and then I tackled my friends list.
Mom couldn't get ahold of 3 of them and so she says that she would just say they are "no" responses. I took on a friend and a family member of FIs. I called them and left messages and then at about 6 I sent a text warning them that if I didn't not receive their answer by tonight that I would consider them "no"s (even though FIs cousin said she was coming but has failed to turn in the rsvp after 10 days) So yeah. Then I texted my mom and said just so you know tonight is the cut off. I warned everyone that if they didn't get it in they would be considered a no. And she replies "Oh Whit it will be fine. I wish you would stop being so snotty."
Are you kidding me??? Snotty??? they are 4 days past the Rsvp date. They had a whole month to turn it in before that. And both people that I warned were sent phone calls, personal reminders, and face book messages. I warned them like 4 times each. I think that is being more than fair. I was even accepting phone RSVPs back. I only want to know your menu choice. how hard can it be?
Ugh. Now that brings my bridezilla out!