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Should I say something to BM's

lalarochellelalarochelle member
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So I talked to my MOH today who is planning one of my showers. She told me where she was in the planning etc...which brought up the shower some of my other BMs are hosting this weekend in my home state.  She showed me a pic of the invites and told me there was no registry info in the invite nor names of who is hosting. Apparently it's a time of day shower, but the only thing to let people know that was a slip of paper in the invite that said "morning" "afternoon" etc...

Should I call them now and see "how the planning is going" and get info, or just wait to see what happens and hope for the best?
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Re: Should I say something to BM's

  • kgorman307kgorman307 member
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    edited December 2011
    The invitation doesn't explain what a "time of day" shower is? I have no idea what that means... your guests may not either. But, they will need to RSVP so they can ask the hosts when they do so. (I assume RSVP info is listed even if they didn't specifically say who is hosting?)

    The appropriate thing to do is stay out of it and let them plan the shower.
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  • MairePoppyMairePoppy mod
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    edited December 2011
    Let the hosts handle it. If any off the guests want to know where you are registered, they will ask the host or your mom, sister etc...It's usually not very difficult to get this information. It's even possible that they included cards from the stores where you are registered with the invitations.

    Just relax and enjoy your shower.
                       
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  • dnstephensdnstephens
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    edited December 2011
    What is a round the clock or time of day shower? I have no idea...
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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    edited December 2011
    I'd let it go, but I'd also be annoyed/nervous.  I can sympathize but like pp's said- let them handle it.  People will figure it out on their own.

    I got invited to a time of day shower last year (but the shower was like a 4 hour plane ride away so I declined).  I had to google it to find out what it meant!  You're supposed to buy a gift for the bride that has something to do with that time of day.  Meaning if you got 8am, you could give her a waffle maker or a coffeemaker or something that has to do with that time of day.   10pm would be bedding or something.  I'm not a huge fan but if you feel like you need a theme it's not too bad.
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  • lalarochellelalarochelle member
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    edited December 2011
    So all in all it went great.  Got mainly g.c's and cash-which was actually beneficial for me since I flew in. Didn't have to worry about how to get everything back!
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