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3 Things Success w BF!

I was a little nervous since some of you ladies didn't get the warmest welcomes with this.  I asked BF to play and he was so curious he got out of his bunk (ready for bed) at the FD to get up and get his tablet. 

I had my post from TK C&Ped to an email draft and sent it before reading his email...

What I love about BF...
1.  He makes me feel good about myself, he is always complementing my looks, my intelligence, everything.  He calls me Baby, which for some reason I love although I never liked that nickname until he came along.

2.  He's very sensual.  He's an amazing lover, when he's touching me he is constantly telling me how gorgeous/beautiful/sexy I am, and his kisses still give me butterflies after 3+ years.

3.  Family is very important to him.  He is close to his family and mine.  Most importantly though he adores my son, and my son really loves him too.

What drives me crazy...
1.  He has a hard time saying no to anyone who asks him to do something, which is a double edge sword.  Sometimes he over commits and brings unnecessary stress.

2.  He works a lot, at two jobs and is drained (physically and emotionally) some of the times that I/we get to see him. 

3.  He puts a lot of focus on the amount of money that he needs to bring in to be able to comfortably be able to provide for our family. 


FYI, I wrote mine about you originally in response to my friend.  

His response...
Cant sleep. was curious

Love:
1. Your positive outlook on life, as I know you will make me smile even on the darkest days
2. Your ambition. You go get what you want and hold nothing back
3. Your huge heart as a mom and as my future wife

Drives me crazy:
1. When you scratch my head w your nails. Drives me crazy in a good way!
2. When I don't see you for days
3. Living in separate places. Still hard to sleep in my room without you

 

I wonder if his response was slightly skewed since he knew I was going to read it whereas I responded to the thread originally without a though of him seeing it.  He did text me saying that he doesn't want to drive me crazy.  I clarified a little and told him to go back to bed!

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Re: 3 Things Success w BF!

  • I don't think his answers were skewed at all... I bet that's really how he feels. You're a lucky girl! I haven't played this game yet with my FI but I don't think he'd like it. Maybe I'll try tomorrow afternoon.
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  • MMPP is right you are lucky.  I think his anwsers are sweet and honest.  Besides why look for trouble where there is none?
    "Love is not affectionate feeling, but a steady wish for the loved person's ultimate good as far as it can be obtained"-C.S. Lewis

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  • Thanks girls, I am lucky he is a great guy!  I'm definitely not looking for trouble at all.  I just think that he may have listed things that I do that annoy him rather for the drives him crazy part had he filled it out in the same way I did.  Still, I am very happy with the result.   
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  • Oh that's so sweet! I want to do this with BF tonight :)
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_3-things-success-w-bf?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:bacaf329-b2ea-4ce3-b743-fac4f02b5d6cPost:1cb25fef-4df2-48cb-8b30-3606d94d917e">Re: 3 Things Success w BF!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oh that's so sweet! I want to do this with BF tonight :)
    Posted by kellyt89[/QUOTE]

    Thanks.  Did you do it?
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