My fiance is an athiest, I however consider myself angonostic. I beleive in a higher beaing just dont agree with some vales or standards of organized relgion... I want my brother to marry us but for the pronouncement he wants to say by the power vested in me, in the state, jesus christ and yadda yada yadda... My other half wont stand for it and will not budge on him closing with god mentioned in it. I dont know what to do. I have tried putting my foot down but he doesn't budge. I want my brother to marry us.. no question.. and my brother requires to say it or I find someone else.I dont want someone else.