June 2012 Weddings

Re: Therapy Thursday

  • To keep it short, FI's boss is a biitch. If I go bridezilla on anyone, I'm saving it all for her.
  • Dear Dad,
    I swear to fucking God, if you stole little bro's college money like you stole mine, I am absolutely done with you.

    Love,
    Pissed off.
  • I feel so sick today. I haven't been sick since I had pneumonia 2 years ago. I just want to go home and go to bed!


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  • I need a vacation. I'm just getting so burnt out at work. I just need a good week off to completely recharge and get a lot of wedding stuff done. (Not that that's going to happen). Sometimes I wish I was a teacher just for the vacation days....
  • FI and I are actually a little freaked out.. We live in a nice area..generally safe, very friendly luxury apt community. 2 days ago there were a bunch of cop cars & yesterday there were news crews EVERYWHERE. We went home, turned On the news and apparently this guy tried to abduct this 8 yr old girl right by our club house, broad daylight. Black gloves and everything. Makes me really glad we don't have kids.
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  • Chels- That is horrible....
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    [QUOTE]Chels- That is horrible....
    Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]

    Yeah I'm freaking out right now. Idk what to do or think.  There's a thread on SB of me asking if my dad is even POSSIBLY telling the truth (from an investment standpoint) and it's not looking so good.
  • Long story super short, my FBIL got engaged recently and they are getting married a month after us...when we are on our honeymoon that was booked well before they got engaged so we can't go. I offered to help my FSIL throw the bride a shower so she would have one here (her family is out of state) and now this girl isn't coming to my shower or bachelorette. I am trying to be inclusive and nice but she has been nothing but a jerk to me.
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  • -I have a sinus infection :( and I'm waiting until Tuesday to go to the drs. I already have an appt for my physical and to check my foot out (hopefully it's good to go) so I don't want to spend an additional $30 for a copay. I've been taking my allergy pill, mucenix, ibuprofen, and nasal decongestant, as well as doing a sinus rinse. I just want to go home and go back to bed.

    -2 invitations (that I know of so far) have yet to be received by my guests. I mailed them out on March 31st. 2 have been returned to me because of wrong addresses, but 2 are still missing. I have no idea where they are. I know I have the correct address for both as well. Ugghh.
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    I found out today that I got a raise but it was a lot smaller than I was expecting.  I know, I should be happy I even got a raise, but it doesn't even cover the higher health insurance costs.
    In the end, I'm bringing home less than the last last year.  We have one less person on staff and I am working at a higher level that the previous year.

    I am so fed up with my job, this is just another thing for the list.
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  • I'm eager for the school year to end so I can have 2 full weeks off to work on wedding things before teaching summer school, but at the same time I don't want it to end because the principal is retiring.  She's AWESOME and so good with the staff, students and parents.  I'm worried about how next year is going to go with a new principal AND new superintendent.

  • I am tired of being sick and I want a new job. I am so ready for a relaxing weekend.

    I just want this wedding planning to be over with. Got in a fight through email with my mom yesterday. There was no reasoning with her whatsoever. She things she knows everything about my life and likes to insert her opinions, but she is wrong and won't listen to me. Somedays, I feel as if she is planning her wedding and not listening to what we want. I am ready for the honeymoon and no cell service.
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  • Another thing---why can't my friends and family understand that when I put "2 seats have been reserved in your honor" that it means we have TWO seats for your family---not two or THREE!   it's not that we don't want the people there, we DON'T  HAVE ROOM in the church for everyone to sit.  FI and I were talking the other day that the people who put extras on the RSVP should be the ones to have to stand up during the ceremony when there's not enough space!
  • Let's see...
    I hate my period. I hate group projects. Of all 3 I have right now, I'm doing most of the work. And I hate death. I feel like I've seen a lot lately and it scares the shiit out of me. Also, my parents had to put down one of our cats this week. She was the first cat we got as a family and I cry everytime I see a picture of her

  • I'm just stressed period (and I don't get stressed easily).  My life in a nutshell:

    I hate my job.  There is absolutely no opportunity for growth here, and I want out (even though I love the people here and it would break my heart to leave them).  Nobody listens to my opinions here, and nobody takes my suggestions seriously - because I am young enough to be everyone's daughter....they think i don't know what I am talking about.

    Long story short, I am looking for a new job, but I am going to have to be really picky about it because I don't want to end up in another position like this.  I'm fine getting into another admin position but there definitely has to be room for growth.  Had an interview yesterday and I think it went well, and the company is really cool, and the people who interviewed me were really nice and fun, but not sure about the growth bit in the company....I'd be taking a pay cut with them, and I'm not sure it would lead anywhere.  Hmmmm do I give up money or sanity????

    So re-planning my life is getting me down.  Can't wait to get to Maui (in less than 2 months!!) and have 2 weeks of wedding fun and relaxation!!

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    [QUOTE]FI and I are actually a little freaked out.. We live in a nice area..generally safe, very friendly luxury apt community. 2 days ago there were a bunch of cop cars & yesterday there were news crews EVERYWHERE. We went home, turned On the news and apparently this guy tried to abduct this 8 yr old girl right by our club house, broad daylight. Black gloves and everything. Makes me really glad we don't have kids.
    Posted by acaponi87[/QUOTE]

    <div>Same thing is happening to us (not quite as extreme), but we live in a super nice, quiet area and we have been told that there is a suspicious person that keeps appearing in & around our building.  Apparently he buzzed some lady's apartment at 3am the other day and tried to get in claiming to be with the police.  Luckily she didn't let him in and when she went down to check and see if he was legitimate a few minutes later, he was gone.  freaky!!</div>

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  • I'm super stressed right now. I think I bit off more than I can chew (which I do verily often). Work has been crazy busy as we want to put in another grant without any real data...ugh! I was just told we have a lab meeting on Friday at 4:00pm. Our meetings are usually at 1 if we have them. We are suppose to meet with a realator at 5:30 so it is going to be super tight. My resident has "misplaced" samples and needs the data ASAP and somehow blaming me. I need to get my sister's quilt done for graduation but trying to find time as been near impossible. And then of course wedding stuff. I have been super worried about a friend who is constantly having neck and back pain and might have to have another surgery.
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  • I'm with Kelsey, I NEED a vacation badly! Fi and I usually go away every April 15th to celebrate our dating anniversary with the HM in June and Mexico booked for December we decided it was a little extreme, but everyone at work is going on holidays and I am getting killed because of it! Which I don't need right now!
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  • hugs to everyone. There seems to be a lot going on that we are dealing with.
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    [QUOTE]I am tired of being sick and I want a new job. I am so ready for a relaxing weekend. I just want this wedding planning to be over with. Got in a fight through email with my mom yesterday. <strong>There was no reasoning with her whatsoever. She things she knows everything about my life and likes to insert her opinions, but she is wrong and won't listen to me. Somedays, I feel as if she is planning her wedding and not listening to what we want.</strong> I am ready for the honeymoon and no cell service.
    Posted by G2SoccerTaz[/QUOTE]


    Wow---I didn't know my sister was your mom! JK Seriously though I sympathize with you.  My older sister is the same way.  And she wonders why I don't tell her anything about the wedding.  I try to TELL her how things are going to be and she continues to give me suggestions that I don't need!  I have it planned--I don't need, I kmow what I want---I don't need suggestions.  FWIW, she's 20 years older and never been married.  She's very jealous I'm sure.
  • The patient census in the ICU has been down all week so the charge RNs had been looking for people to stay home and then be rescheduled for a shift later in the week. Sunday night I said no, but Monday I gave in since FI had the day off too. I rescheduled for tonight which sounded good at first...but now that it's here, and it's nice out and FI is already done at work for the day...it's dawning on me that if I just would have went to work on Monday, my work week would have been finished yesterday at 7am. Now I have 12 more hours to go. Bummer.
  • Why do people think its okay to invite themselves and others to OUR wedding? We've had three guests call to ask if they can add people to their RSVP, and two other people that we weren't planning on inviting tell us they want to be invited.  The worst part is I am too soft, and don't know how to say no to these people. I'm seriously stressing about the guest list count!
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  • I don't want to brag but I am SO glad I have my new job.  It has given me a new level of energy I haven't seen from myself in a very long time.  With my job I also feel like I am contributing to something truly good now in the world.  This new job has made me realize how bad working at the other place really is and that I really don't belong there.  It's also made me question what the heck I was thinking for the past 1 1/2 years at the "old" job.

    My shower is Sunday and I REALLY want to stalk the registry but I told myself I wouldn't so I can be surprised.
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    [QUOTE]FI and I are actually a little freaked out.. We live in a nice area..generally safe, very friendly luxury apt community. 2 days ago there were a bunch of cop cars & yesterday there were news crews EVERYWHERE. We went home, turned On the news and apparently this guy tried to abduct this 8 yr old girl right by our club house, broad daylight. Black gloves and everything. Makes me really glad we don't have kids.
    Posted by acaponi87[/QUOTE]

    I saw this on the news this morning. Scary! I'd probably be freaked out, too. I'm just glad the little girl wasn't hurt...
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  • I'm still battling with staying at this stupid job - the highs and lows are going to kill me!

    I really feel that I am the last one left that cares about what's right and wrong in this inethical office. I mean, seriously - this stupid bitch stole from the consumers, lied on her timecard, loses her mind in the office and nobody seems to care. In fact, it seems like it's been addressed by management, but I'm the only one who has established any boundaries.

    I'm tired of fighting this battle; I work with a bunch of spineless people who don't mind inethical. I just want to work in a professional office - is that really too much to ask?????
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