I spoke to my ex husband today. His live-in girlfriend is pregnant and we are on speaking terms, so I wanted to check on them to see how they're doing.
He asked about my partner's work, and told me not to rush into getting married again, because I had to 'find out if I could could really stick with someone through good times and bad.'
I told him that my partner and I aren't rushing into anything, but we are getting married, and I thought it was best that he heard it from me.
I know he was a little hurt, because he made a sharp comment about how lonely I'd be in a marriage to someone in the airline industry(a reference to our marriage.) But overall, he handled it pretty well. And I have to be honest- I've been dreading this conversation for almost a year. I feel relieved.