Last update on my BM that is no longer in my wedding. I'm through even wasting my energy talking about this ITSH.
So she paid her deposit and never came back for the final fitting. Even when I offered her a ride and told her if she needed anything just let me know. She never communicated with me and deep down I don't think she really wanted to support me while her life is a mess.
So I get a text with her asking about the money she put down for the deposit for the dress. Um... if you don't follow through on your commitment you lose your deposit. right?
Anyway, I want her out of my life and I'm done. I will pay her back AFTER the wedding, but I just can't believe some people. Also, when we were younger she owed me hundreds of dollars that she never paid back and I let it go. So funny how easily she forgets....
Re: Say it isn't so....
Um, girl why does she get her deposit back at all? Ain't trying to sound OG about it but that's between her and the dress shop.
[QUOTE]good morning Carla. Um, girl why does she get her deposit back at all? Ain't trying to sound OG about it but that's between her and the dress shop.
Posted by sultryzulu[/QUOTE]
I agree with sultry. Would the dress shop be giving her her $$$ back? I wouldnt be coming out my pocket for it. thats her fault.
[QUOTE]good morning Carla. Um, girl why does she get her deposit back at all? Ain't trying to sound OG about it but that's between her and the dress shop.
Posted by sultryzulu[/QUOTE]
That's what I'm saying. It's not your fault that she's trifflin.
She should get a store credit like everyone else.
The dresses are being custom made by a seamstress.
[QUOTE]The dresses are being custom made by a seamstress.
Posted by Carla1019[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE]She should get a store credit like everyone else.
Posted by 20pearls16[/QUOTE]
I cannot with you at all! LOL...you right though!
[QUOTE]I agree, she doesn't deserve her money back but I'm willing to pay it to get her out of my life and have peace!
Posted by Carla1019[/QUOTE]
Girl This!!..
I had to do the same thing for a BM (someone who I considered to be a VERY close friend, and was there/the first person to know that we had gotten engaged!) who lied to me to get out of being in the wedding.
The only difference, was that I found someone to replace her and used the dress that she had already ordered... I was initally going to pay her for the entire dress.. but once my SIL had to get alterations, and I found out that homegirl was lying!.. I only paid her 1/2 of what I said.. and even then she had to nerve to basically harass me for the money.. even AFTER I explained to her that not only were we wiped out due to the wedding, but we needed to get a new car because Hubby was in an accident and totalled it the week of the wedding!..
Anywho.. I gave her the money when I felt like I had it to give.. unfriended her on FB, and haven't called her at ALL (even though the calling had stopped a while back).. and you know what.. that heifa hasn't called me to even ask if I was breathing.. and I'm fine with it.. It will keep you in PERFECT peace after getting rid of her!..lol