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Shower Snafu- help!!

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My FMIL threw me a surprise shower over the weekend with all of the members of her family, many of whom I've never met before.  Tonight as I started writing thank you notes, I realized that her aunt who was at the shower and gave me a gift was not invited to the wedding! Embarassed
I feel terribly rude, but I obviously didn't have anything to do with the guest list.  Should I send her an invitation now, even though the wedding is only 3 weeks away?
Help!!
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Re: Shower Snafu- help!!

  • banana468banana468 member
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    edited December 2011
    You don't have to.  Technically your FMIL was out of line to invite people who weren't invited to the wedding.

    If you can it's a nice gesture to invite the aunt but it's also OK to say something like it was such a nice surprise to see her.
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  • morenachica110morenachica110 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_pre-wedding-parties_shower-snafu?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:32Discussion:dc30a3c2-13f3-4906-95b2-88503381db52Post:556af431-5e1b-4488-a2c1-8c8f15d2812e">Re: Shower Snafu- help!!</a>:
    [QUOTE]You don't have to.  Technically your FMIL was out of line to invite people who weren't invited to the wedding. If you can it's a nice gesture to invite the aunt but it's also OK to say something like it was such a nice surprise to see her.
    Posted by banana468[/QUOTE]

    <div>Ditto to this. It wasn't your doing so i wouldn't feel guilty. I would just send her a thank you note for her gift and say it was great to see her.</div>

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