Is this a regional thing? I'd never heard of it until I moved to KY. And I was just reading an obit for a prominent guy in our town. It listed pallbearers. Then it listed the honorary pallbearers. There were about 15 individual names, all associates at [his business], all brothers of [college fraternity] and the 1952 graduating class of [his high school]. Somebody was afraid to leave anyone out.
It's only a matter of time until this idea spreads to weddings. How better to honor your ugly, fat and/or poor friends than with an honorary bridesmaidship that allows her to sit quietly in the back row and not appear in any pictures.
I just a friendly gal looking for options.