So Saturday was my b party and while I was so excited for it even though all last week people kept cancelling including my MOH. I was determined to make the best of it. So we were having a Slumber Party starting at 6 everyone showing up at 5:30. Well everyone showed up late AND the lady never showed up for the party. So we went to a sex shop instead where everyone bought stuff for FI and I which was cool yet weird.
Afterwards we went to dinner which was great except 1 girl got sick and the waiter was horrible (I went to school with him.) Then during dinner one of my BM's tells me she can only stay at the rehearsal for 30 min because she is going to a concert. And then after dinner 2 of my BM's left, the girl who was sick, and FSIL. So the few of us who were left went to a bar and then they took me home.
The original plan was the Slumber Party, then dinner, and then out for the night. But one of the BM's that left is the one who planned the night. Also no one offered to pay for my dinner except 1 BM who is my cousin and she left after dinner because she is only 20. My feelings were completely hurt by the whole thing. I called my MOH yesterday morning crying because I feel like my wedding is an inconvience for everyone.
My MOH and 1 BM are getting married next year, 2 BM's have been in 3 weddings this year alone and are exhausted and my other BM just doesn't seem to care. I am grateful for everyone who came out and for what they did do but it was just a horrible night.
End Vent.