I come from a big Mexican family with over 100 first cousins and countless uncles and aunts (lol). My fiance comes from a much smaller family. I have been planning an intimate wedding for our closest family and friends, but after reviewing flight prices I'm worried even my closest family can't make it to our Hawaiian wedding while my fiances family can. Family is very important to me but the last thing I want is a traditional big drunk Mexican wedding with people I don't know. Also, it has always been mine and my fiances dream to marry in Maui and I already have a planner, venue, and photographer tentatively reserved. I'm just worried it won't be the dream wedding if our closest friends can't afford to go. The reason I don't want to have it here in California is because I know that by having it in California I will feel obligated to invite first cousins, 2nd cousins, 3rd cousins, so on and so forth and people I don't even know! So which would you think? I don't want to be thoughtless and not consider those who want but can't afford to go by wedding in Maui, but I also don't want to be forced to throw a huge party locally for distant cousins and such. I felt like Hawaii was a way to not only have our dream wedding but to also help make it a more intimate ceremony. Thanks girls for any advice you can give!