How would you handle this... my Fiance want's his best friend to be the best man. I normally would not have a prob with this but his best friend is such a jerk! They have been friends since they were in mid-school together but even then the best friend has hardly ever been supportive of my fiance. It is really hard for me to envision him as the bestman also because he doesn't like me! I really don't mind if he doesn't like me but what is hard is that he doesn't support my relationship with my fiance. He finds me not good enough and undeserving. In my eyes I would certainly not have him as the bestman in my wedding but I do know that it is my fiance's choice.
What do I do? I would really like to have people in our wedding party to support us in all we do as a couple but this just doesn't seem to be going in that direction.
Should I allow him to be in the wedding? or forbid my fiance from chosing him to be the bestman? (thank goodness i have time to decide this - wedding will be june 2011)