So my parents have both passed away and I am only left with my stepdad who has never really been there for me or my sisters. When he found out about the wedding plans he had his new wife talk to me about if he was going to get to walk me down the aisle. I avoided the question because I have yet to decide how to tell him no. My family and fiance's family, who I am very close with, want me to stick up for myself and tell him no because of all he has put us through ahe doesnt deserve to. He can also be very mean to my fiance. I thought about having my grandpa walk me, however, my stepdad can be an emotional bully and I am afraid of the drama he will cause if I not only tell him no but that someone else is walking me. I think the only real way to handle the situation is to walk myself halfway and have my fiance come the other half to meet me. That way I can include my stepdad in other small things such as the dance but not allow him the important role of walking me down. Any suggestions on how to make everything less stressful or how to still tell him I want to walk myself or with my grandpa?
