October 2012 Weddings

I was doing so well

Had my first panic attack this morning thanks to FMIL. She started giving me info on family that is coming into town so I realized she wanted to know who was invited to the rehearsal dinner. So I sent her a list of the people. She sends me an email saying she thinks her two friends who are coming in from out of town should be invited. So I emailed back saying they were on the list I gave her, which by the way is only 34 people so not a big list. I think that will be all but she emails back saying I don't see them on the list and I think they should be on there. WTF??!!!??? Really holy cow, you do not know the restraint I had to use to not email back something snarky. So now this morning because I'm holding it in I'm getting ready and thinking about how I"m going to do my hair and how awful it's going to be and then I look at my arms and they look all flabby and I start to get this weird feeling in my stomach and want to throw up! The thing is everything has been going so smooth and I've been so calm. Honestly I can now see how a girl can turn into a bridezilla over what seems like a small thing!

Re: I was doing so well

  • BREATH... just breath... I know that feeling

    If they are on there and you know you put them on there then there is nothing to do but breath...

    I saw my E-PICS and cried... saying I look fat and ugly and I am going to look horrible at the wedding... FI had to calm me down... I LOOK fine in them, beautiful, he lvoes them... they look like the woman he fell in love with which he said BTW is me LOL I just FLIPPED out becasue of stress of work and other things...

    BRIDEZILLA comes easily to some of us at this point! less than a month to go and the stress gets to us... just hold it together... everything will be fine!
  • Breathe. Get outside for a minute if you can. If you get shaky, put your head between  your knees and breathe through your nose. :(

    Talk to FI before talking to FMIL again. Maybe he can take the reigns on that.

    Your arms are probably lovely; your brain was tricking you.  I felt the same way about my chin last night and nearly burst into tears.  It looks fine this morning,

    This too shall pass.  :)
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  • OK turns out the list I sent did not have her friends names on them...oops! Good thing I didn't send an email back :)
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