July 2012 Weddings

Just don't speak to me!!!!!!!

I am having a moment and need to vent. I am a stay at home mom, I get maybe 5-6 hours of sleep a night. I have a 1 year old and a 6 year old. I travel 1 hour every morning to take my son to school because we live on the other side of town. I cook, I clean, I do it all. Fi doesnt take son to school, Fi doesnt have house work all day I DO, Fi doesnt have a baby sitting on his desk at work to take care of I DO! All i Fn ask is on SAT and SUN that I have some ALONE time. That may consist of a nap, reading, watching a movie.. For about 2-3hours. But NO that is simply impossible. His ass is on the computer, or playing video games. and somehow when the baby hasnt been fed, changed, the older child is talking to much, or needs help Its always my fault. I told FI last night I am sick and tired of doing everything. I AM GOING ON STRIKE. 
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Re: Just don't speak to me!!!!!!!

  • Ugh!  I know just how you feel!  I have been sick all week and all I wanted was for Fi to help with the girls yesterday since it was the only day he has been home while I have been sick (with 2 sick kids).  I know he works a ton and I appreciate the fact that he does work so hard but I am exhausted from being sick and being up every night with 2 sick kids!   I just asked him to please feed them some lunch so I could lay down for just a little bit and he couldnt even do that!  This morning I had to go meet with a client and I just didnt come home for like 2 hours so he had to get up and take care of them even though he was tired from working last night.  I had some quiet time and stopped by the reception venue to spy on a reception that was being set up.  I just needed like 2 hours to relax.  Sometimes they sure can be buttheads about helping with the kids!  Hugs! 
    :)AJ Pregnancy Ticker
  • Amen... lol
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  • Ugh, video games are what I resent. FI has 3 teens who would love his attention. Alas call of duty seems to win out.
  • So apparently all my complaining worked! He cleaned the living room, kitchen, bathrooms, also took out the boxes that have been sitting in the living room from the wedding shipments that he promised would take to the dump. Also the grandparents picked up the kids today so we could celebrate St. Pattys day for the first time together even though we have been together for 3 years! lol first time I was in Vegas with friends, 2nd time I was pregnant with our daughter, and now we finally get to celebrate but I will be DD tonight. I slept today from 1am-9am, 12pm-2pm, 4pm-7pm!! Since there we have no kids today I did what I wanted to do and that was SLEEP! Ya I would say I am exhausted!
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  • Yay! Good for you. I love sleeping too. My 1.5 year old takes a toll on me sometimes too and I love getting that extra time to relax. :) 
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