I'm probably putting the cart before the horse here, but here's what's going on:
I asked one of my BMs to be in the wedding in January (my wedding is in October). I went back and forth about asking her, as we're great friends, but for a few months she was dealing with her own things and I didn't see her. We started seeing more of each other and I decided to ask her.
Since then, I haven't been able to talk to her about the wedding at all. Well, I've talked to her, but she hasn't responded. Yes, I talk to her about NWR things and see her about twice a month.
1) I tried to get my BMs (all local) together to try on dresses. She wouldn't return my emails. I scheduled it on a day she told me she might have off from work. She ended up having to work that day - she told me about it the night before the dress appointment when I asked her point-blank. Later, I showed her one dress the other two BMs liked and she said it was totally fine.
2) I am buying the dresses for my 3 BMs. I just need them to give me their size information so I can order them. I sent her a size chart and asked her to let me know her size or to get fitted. One of my BMs wants to go to the store to get fitted, so I emailed this BM about that as well. No response.
She does respond to other calls, emails and texts. Just not these.
I'm at the point where I'm not going to push the issue further. I'm ordering dresses by the end of the month (possibly tomorrow). So I feel like the ball is in her court. Like WP regs always say, the only "job" a BM has is to get a dress and show up, so if she doesn't get a dress, she's taking herself out of the wedding party, right?
Don't get me started on how non-confrontational she is, or my suspicions about how she's going to skip my wedding to go to a party in Vegas that weekend.
Thanks for letting me vent.
CN: BM won't respond to any of my emails. I'm getting ready to order the dresses and I don't know her size. I can just let this go and assume she's taking her self out of the wedding at some point, yes?
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