So my fiance and his best friend are both in the army. His best friend Jay got married right before he went on his 2nd tour of Iraq. On R ana R his wife got pregnant, and now because she says its too hard and they are too mad at eachother, she wants a divorce! He wont get back from Iraq till November... She is being so immature, and I cannot figure out how to get through to this girl that marriages take work and are not always fun and games! Jay is devastated and I am so mad that she is being so inconsiderate to her husband!! She wont even consider counsiling or anything!!! Ahhhh sorry I guess Im just kind of venting but if any of you have any ideas on how to get through to this girl, let me know cuz I am out of ideas!!!