Hi! So I've narrowed my selection down to these 2 venues. I love them both! Would anyone recommend or not recommend one or the other? The Grove has this amazing new pavillion that could easily/comfortably accomidate a sit down dinner and dance floor for all of our guests and is very open to us using outside caterers/bringing our own liquor (huge factor for our budget!). But I do love the mansion,especially the ceremony site and how organized it is. Thanks in advance!