So my sister was invited however she said she was not able to come because she just started a neew job and didn't know if she could take an entire weekend off(she works at a retail store) well yesterday her boyfriend face booked me (which I hate you have my number just call me) to tell me they are coming and for the names of some hotels near our house, cool done! Well the invite comes today anad not only is she coming but bringing her 5 BAD ASS KIDS!!!! YES THEY ARE BAD!!!!!!! Now I just nicely sent them a message stating I had not included her kids in the head count and I under no cicumstances going over my head count PERIOD! Now she has been going through a nasty divorce for over a year and I just spent two weeks in Disney with her and those boys and I WILL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN! She was in a marriage to a horrible man who used her merely for a baby factory, she had balloned up from 130lbs to over 300lbs in her 10 year marriage "cause he liked her fat" his words, now since they broke up she has dropped down about 200 lbs! She only has her kids every weekend until the divorce is final because her kids r in philly and she lives in delaware. She is my sister and I love her dearly but she is flakey, when other adults are around she acts like her kids aren't even there and has others take responsibility for them. Im not having that at my reception! Her kids have never been exposed to much so they don't know how to behave so it is really not their fault but they are bad! Im so ticked off that she would put them on the rsvp card and not even call me to ask me if it was okay. She didn't even write it on the line provided she wrote it on the outside of the envelope!!! WTF! I don't know what to do but I do not wan tto have to spend my entire receptiion telling those boys to sit down, bequite, stop that, etc!!!
WHAT TO DO???????