Not sure how to feel about this... I found out today that my dad is attending FI's bachelor weekend. They are close, but I always just assumed it was a weekend for him and his friends. I would never in a million years feel comfortable with his mom coming to my bachelorette weekend! I am in no way shooting this down or telling FI it can't happen, just wondering if anyone else has been in a similar situation or if you think it's strange for your dad to attend a weekend of drinking and debauchery with his daughter's future husband.
Re: So my Dad's going to the bachelor party
I think it depends on what they are doing. Can I see my dad going to the strip club with the guys??? Uh no. But if they are just going bar hopping or putt putt golfing, smoking cigars, whatever....I'd be ok with that I think.
FWIW, i don't think you need to invite FMIL or anything because of this, though.
May 2013 February Siggy: Invitations
[QUOTE]Bar hopping, golfing, cigar smoking, <strong>Steeler's game</strong>. At least that's what I've been told... I would be super weirded out if my dad and FI went to a strip club together.
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Lurker here but I'm from Pittsburgh and I know if anyone told my Dad that's what was going on at the bachelor party he'd be there in a second. Heck, if that's what FI was doing and I wasn't invited I'd be PO'd! haha
FWIW I think that with those activities it wouldn't be odd to have your FFIL there at all. Doesn't sound like a drunken debauchery party at all.
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</div><div>I don't have a problem with it. And I didn't tell anyone I was against it. I just wasn't sure if it was the norm or what others have done.
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