I fell victim to a surprise bridal shower this weekend. I was lured under the pretense of a housewarming party to my sister's house, AND my shower was "planned" for July 8th, so I didn't suspect a thing.
It was a great time - about 30 friends & family outside in the backyard (sunny & 90 - my favorite weather!). Lunch was a potato bar and my sister made this awesome cake that was skydiving themed - the canopy of the parachute was all cake and where the parachuter would be was a mini heart cake (I skydive). I got awesome gifts - nearly everything was off registries, so stuff I wanted (we're in our 30s and pretty established in housewares).
The part I found hardest was trying to talk to everyone since you know EVERYONE!! At other events, you stick with the few you know, but obviously when it's for you, it's difficult. Some people I didn't even get to talk to one-on-one, so I feel a bit bad, but I hope they understand.