One of my bridesmaid, who is also my roommate till I get married can't fit into her dress. When she ordered her dress she ordered a size smaller than what she was. She Planned on working out and eating better to fit into the dress. She did the opposite of that. Now that she has the dress she is two dress sizes bigger then the dress. She started this juicing diet that lasted about a week, and now she is back to eating Burger King, and everything else that's not the healthiest. There is less then two months to go and I have a strong feeling she wont fit into the dress by the wedding day. I don't know if I should say something, or just wait. What do I do if she doesn't fit into the dress by my wedding date? I'm just super concerned and have no clue what I should do. I need your help ladies. Thank you in advance.
Re: Need help...Bridesmaid dress doesnt fit
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Hopefully she realizes that it's way, WAY easier to go up a size than go down, and she starts dieting for the wedding now so that she doesn't end up with a disaster. I suppose worst case scenario is she can't fit in her dress and takes herself out of the wedding party as Rlavach said. That would be unfortunate, but you can't make someone lose weight, and subjects like that can be straining on friendships. GL on this one.
Only reason I found out the dress is two sizes to big is because she let me know. I thought she looked the same so I had no clue. I don't want to say anything because I know it is a touchy subject and I don't want to come off rude or make her think I'm pressuring her to lose weight. I think I will try to talk to her as nice as possible and see how the weight loss is going. If it looks the same then I will suggest on trying to get the dress let out. The dresses are the same so not sure how fast another dress could be ordered, but will look into it. Thank you girls for the advise. I'll let you know how it goes.
I never thought of Spanx, not sure if it will work but I will put that in the pile of options. She wants to hang out soon so I will try to bring it up then as gently as I can. We cant order a new dress because the company we got the dress from went out of business last month. Only other option is to hope there is extra material to let it out, or see if we can find another dress that looks like the other girls. I'm just hoping when I talk to her she understands where I'm coming from. She can get offended very easily.
[QUOTE]I never thought of Spanx, not sure if it will work but I will put that in the pile of options. She wants to hang out soon so I will try to bring it up then as gently as I can. We cant order a new dress because the company we got the dress from went out of business last month. Only other option is to hope there is extra material to let it out, or see if we can find another dress that looks like the other girls. I'm just hoping when I talk to her she understands where I'm coming from. <strong>She can get offended very easily.</strong>
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Ugh oh, that's not good. What about someone else breaking it to her. Do you have a friend, sister, mom that could perhaps say it very gently. Then when she asks you what your opinion is on the subject, you can concur? I only say that because you don't want her resenting you for this if she is easily offended.<div>
</div><div>My BM was procrastinating in getting her dress. She kept waiting & waiting & waiting, hoping that she could save up enough $ to afford a $300 dress she fell in love with, even though I was suggesting $75 dresses. I talked to her several times about it, but no luck. Eventually I asked my mom to gently bring it up next time they were doing shower organizing & it worked. The next weekend she bought it. Sometimes hearing it from someone else has a greater impact.</div>
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