My fiance and I are planning a private wedding for this spring with just us, our officiant, and witnesses. Wondering if we should tell our families what our plans are before the wedding? They know we are engaged and right now everyone is kind of expecting us to plan a regular, traditional wedding. My family in particular has been really pushy about planning a wedding asap after we got engaged, and are somewhat aggravated that we have not "planned faster". On one hand, I think they might be pushy about making wedding plans over the next couple months if we don't share the news. On the other hand, I'm concerned that they might become pushy about coming to our wedding if we tell them in advance. To anyone who has eloped - what has been your experience with telling your family before or after?
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