I am so pissed right now at my FI. I hate it when I ask him to do something and it takes him forever to do it. And then when I follow up with him on it, he says, Oh! I didn't know I was supposed to do that. You never told me that I had to do that! That is the reason why I typically just do shyt myself, because he drags his phucking feet about doing everything! I asked him to block the hotel rooms. He hasn't blocked one hotel and our wedding is in three months. He keeps saying that he's scheduling appts. and he plans on meeting with the hotel rep., but he got off of work too late, and then today he had the day off, but he was too tired to go. Then today we talked about the rehearsal dinner. I swear he told me that he spoke to his dad and his dad was going to cover the costs for it and provide the food. Now today when I brought it up in front of our friend, he says, oh I didn't know that, this is my first time hearing about this. And I go, well you are the one that said that you spoke with your dad about it, and he goes, I don't remember talking to him. And I'm like but you told me you did, so were you lying. And he's all, no, I never said that. I didn't even know that I was supposed to talk to him about it. But I asked him to talk to his dad about it ages ago. I never talk to his dad, so how was I supposed to talk to him. And for months we've been talking about this rehearsal dinner, and making plans, and he hasn't even talked to him about it! UGH! I'm sooooooooooo pissed right now. We just got into a huge argument about it, because I'm tired of this shyt. I'm tired of having to run behind him and do everything. I need help! I can't do this by myself. And when I ask for his help, he says, I'm going to do it, and then forgets about it, and when I bring it up he goes, oh was I supposed to do that? It just burns me up! Are any of you ladies having this problem with your FI? What do you do to light a fire under his azz?