I'm newly engaged and was absolutely FLOORED by the costs of engagement and wedding photography costs in my city (Dallas, TX). $6,000 for wedding photography? Are you KIDDING me??
Future brides, there is absolutely NO reason to pay that much for wedding photography. Assuming you live in a medium-sized to large city, there are HUNDREDS of photographers (ranging from aspiring/new to the field to very seasoned professionals) who want to shoot you and your fiance for FREE. Yes, free! Photographers constantly want to update their portfolios to market themselves to potential clients. They are always looking to try out new themes, new concepts, new settings and new faces! If they have no work coming up (or just a day off), it's much better for a photographer to use that time wisely shooting your engagement or wedding photos for free!
I got absolutely FABULOUS engagement photos for free by doing a Craigslist post under "Gigs" in my city seeking a photographer for trade. I was very upfront in my post that I was seeking a free session as a way to help the photographer practice their skills and boost their portfolio. In under 24 hours, I received over 20 e-mails from photographers (some beginners, of course... but some sent me incredible photos!) I was so impressed! My future husband and I will be doing the same thing for our wedding photos! We will be saving thousands!