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OMG!

amyg8327amyg8327
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I just had a bridesmaid drop out of my wedding today, via email.  I dont even know to think.  My wedding is in 26 days. 

Someone help me back to sanity!
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  • iamstephiamsteph member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Don't let it stress you! Uneven bridal parties are ok.  If you have more guys than girls now, you can have two guys walk one of your girls down the aisle and she might enjoy having a guy on each arm ;)

    You can also ask her why she's dropping out. Maybe she can't afford her bridesmaid dress, hair and makeup, etc. So if it's a money issue, perhaps you are able to help her pay for some of the things. 

    It really wasn't cool of her to do it through email though. 
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  • Ashley42410Ashley42410
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    edited December 2011
    Oh no, how stressful and disappointing, I'm so sorry to hear this!  Hope everything works out, like pp said, maybe you can talk to her and work something out. 
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  • summerbelle.winterbellesummerbelle.winterbelle
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    edited December 2011
    That's awful! I would find out if there are some personal reasons that you may not be aware of... I myself have a bridesmaid that had done the absolute minimum the entire time (which is get the dress). I have to say that I would rather have someone there that really wants to be there, then to have someone who doesn't. I've been a little worried that she's going to do the same thing, so I feel for you!
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  • gottahavashortigottahavashorti member
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    edited December 2011
    It will be okay, and you'll probably barely notice the day of the wedding.  Let it go and don't replace her.  Uneven sides are fine if that's an issue, one GM can walk alone or two GM can walk with 1 BM.
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  • Ginabean2011Ginabean2011
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    edited December 2011
    As far as you wedding goes- try to stay calm because it really won't matter at all if sides are uneven or anything like that. So not a big deal. But the real issue is your friendship, I'd be trying to make sure everything was ok between us. Hopefully it was just a scheduling conflict of some sort or some other issue that doesn't have anything to do with you.
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