FI and I decided on a destination wedding on the beach in FL and in May of 2011, the company that we are using to perform the ceremony is all booked up in May of next year. I suggested June or August. FI suggested September. I always wanted to get married in the spring/summer so I thought June or even August would be good. FI thinks that June would be too busy on the beach because that's when most families are prob going to be going on vacation, and we are from Tennessee, and the first week of August school usually starts back, so he thinks it will be difficult for his cousins and my brother, plus some of our friends kids to get out of school for one day (Friday) because they just started back. He thinks that September would be best because they would have time to have settled in school. I just can't see myself getting married in September, I don't have any real reason except that I really wanted to get married in the spring. His arguement is that we are getting married on the beach and there really isn't much of a seasonal change to worry about. I understand this, but for some reason, I just can't get over the idea that it's September.
So school just started back last week down here, so it will prob be starting back about the same time next year. I think August 20, 2011 is perfect, for his cousins and my brother, gives them 2 1/2 weeks to get settled into school and they would only have to take off Friday to make the trip.
I just need a little advice on how to deal with this situation. Because I am really set on NOT doing it in September.
I can't wait to marry my best friend!
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