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feeling sick...

saracksarack
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as this wedding gets closer.. there are so many unknowns and its making me feel ill.

why can't people rsvp?

i am trying to do the day of timeline and that is making me feel sick.  i don't know how long stuff takes or how long to schedule stuff for...

i've been dreaming of my wedding since i was little.. and 'planning' since atleast 7 years ago.. crazy i know, FI are celebrating our 10 year in a month... i thought i had everything planned out but i don't.

things that i thought i cared about i really don't.. and stuff i didn't think was a big deal is getting to me.

my shower is this weekend and i can't get ahold of my mum and i don't know if FI's mom is coming... that makes me sad

i think i'm just overreacting but thinking about all of it makes me wanna cry.

i just needed to get that out.. FI doesn't really wanna listen and doesn't understand when i have these freakouts.. ugh!
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Re: feeling sick...

  • trishaselbytrishaselby
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry! you need a hug. I think sometimes we just need a break from all this planning and just relax and enjoy the unknowns :) It is hard to do but don't worry about your shower this weekend. It is for you to enjoy not fret over.

    What I have learned in regards to other people is you can't change them or make them do anything they don't want to...so just wait out the RSVP's. They will come and if not you (or someone else will call).

    I do feel the same way. Nothing seems that fun--just really stressful. That final details packet really is overwhelming, there are lots of little details. Look forward to enjoying your shower and spending time with those people who are there becuase they want to shower you! ;)
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  • TygirljojoTygirljojo
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    edited December 2011
    *hugs* Breathe in.  Breathe out.  And repeat "I am marrying an amazing man."  At least that's everything I try to remind myself.  Except the hugs part - it's kind of wierd to try to hug yourself.  You just end up looking like you're wearing an invisible straightjacket.  :P
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  • KST_KST_
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    edited December 2011
    [QUOTE]Except the hugs part - it's kind of wierd to try to hug yourself.  You just end up looking like you're wearing an invisible straightjacket.  :P
    Posted by Tygirljojo[/QUOTE]
    Hahaha, I am beginning to think I need one, visible or not!!!

    Sarack - you're not alone and it's completely normal, I've decided at this point (and as my dad reassures me frequently when I call him full of anxiety). Lots of stuff I thought I cared about are dropping by the wayside. Only one thing unsolved is still bothering me.
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  • jamers22jamers22
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    edited December 2011

    ((((hugs)))) I'm sorry you're feeling so overwhelmed. just keep reminding yourself that soon enough, you'll be laying on that gorgeous beach in Mexico, with bottomless drinks, next to your HUSBAND! :)

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  • jennyann28jennyann28
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    edited December 2011
    *hugs*
    I wouldn't wish this feeling on anyone.  However, it's kind of nice to know I'm not alone in feeling that way.  Don't worry Twin, you've got my support all the way to the big day!
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  • saracksarack
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks girls! After I had a nervous breakdown, FI sent me this text: "i love you so much baby. we will get this done with lots of time to spare. Let's have fun doin it, we only get married once"

    I'm so lucky to have a great FI... and my TK family support! And I'm glad that I'm not the only one!
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  • alyssa324alyssa324 member
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    edited December 2011
    *HUGS* I wish this feeling didnt come with wedding planning but as it sms everyone goes through it. Like everyone said just look forward to the postives and dont fret about the negative. It will all work out. And you will (finally 10 years!! wow LOL) marry the man of your dreams. And then have a blast on a perfect no stress honeymoon :)
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  • niq24601niq24601
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    A friend of mine had a nice quote on this. I've started saying it to myself three times whenever things get a little wacky:

    "The wedding is not the marriage".

    It's. So. True.

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